Esha Deol, who recently went through a divorce from businessman Bharat Takhtani after 11 years of marriage, revealed the invaluable advice her mother, veteran actress Hema Malini, has given her over the years. In a recent interview with The Quint, Esha shared how her mother has always emphasized the importance of maintaining independence and keeping the spirit of romance alive, regardless of life’s challenges.
Reflecting on her mother’s guidance, Esha spoke about the significance of having one’s own identity. According to her, Hema Malini consistently urged her to continue working and building a life beyond marriage. “Every mother would want to tell their daughters this – to maintain their self-identity. My mother always reminded me that no matter what happens, a woman should have her own profession and keep working,” Esha said.
Hema Malini’s advice extended to financial independence as well. Esha recalled her mother’s insistence that a woman should always be self-reliant, regardless of her spouse’s financial status. “She told me that even if you are married to a millionaire, being financially independent makes a woman different. It gives you confidence and security,” Esha explained.
In addition to practical wisdom, Hema Malini also shared a softer, more emotional piece of advice – to never let romance fade from life. Esha revealed that her mother believes romance is an essential part of life and should not be overlooked. “She said that romance gives you those butterflies in your stomach – that feeling we all want. It’s something that should never die out. I’ve kept that advice in mind, but I haven’t acted on it yet,” Esha added with a smile.
Esha Deol and Bharat Takhtani’s separation in 2024 came as a surprise to many, especially given their long-standing relationship. However, despite the personal challenges, Esha appears to be navigating life with resilience, supported by her mother’s wise counsel.
Throughout her career and personal life, Esha has followed in her mother’s footsteps, not just in the realm of cinema but also in upholding values of strength and independence. With Hema Malini’s guidance, Esha remains focused on self-growth while keeping an open heart for new beginnings.
